Why Goal Setting Doesn't Always Work!
We set out with the best intentions, but.........

Most of us have set New Year Resolutions and there are all kinds of available statistics on the rates of successful outcomes, including the dates when the resolution expires! I am posting this on 26th February and guessing many resolutions are no more.
There is lots of good information available to us on how to identify goals and create plans to achieve them, so why do so few goals ever get so vigorously followed through that the original intention becomes part of our every day life?
A Life Coach may take the view that you didn't want it enough, a Guide may assume that the goal didn't have enough meaning to you and a Financial Adviser may just find it hard to accept that you didn't buy the recommended suite of technically correct tax efficient, regulated products that he made having analysed your financial situation and identified the gaps with regard to current needs and future plans!
I suggest that in life, you will need to have full coherence between goals, meaning and financial resources in order to achieve and maintain your desired lifestyle and so I see why in each of the above elements of life planning; your coach, guide and/or financial adviser may shrug believing your failure to achieve the goal had nothing to do with them!
On a recent flight I bought the book "That Little Voice in Your Head" by Mo Gawdat. Mo has an MBA and has worked in various roles for Microsoft and became Chief Business Officer at Google X. The book resonated with me because its all about the fact that whatever our best intentions, there is a little voice in our head that just does not want us to change, to take risk, to explore possibility. The voice is all about keeping us safe, fitting in with our tribe and not being an embarrassment or disappointment to our family, friends, community.
The theme aligns with Steve Peters "The Chimp Paradox" as well as John Assaraf's 800lb Gorilla running our ancient brain's limbic system and Dr Kerry Spackman insisting that to achieve our goals we need to become a "Limbic Master"
This recurring theme of a voice, chimp, gorilla in our heads suggests to me that unless we can quieten that voice, placate the gorilla, nurture the chimp any goal we set will be challenged from within us!
We need to befriend, convince and hopefully establish a contract with our resistance by showing them that you have reviewed and analysed your goals along with all available resources and you are taking full personal responsibility and absolving them of any blame if it all goes wrong!
You need to produce and then show them a fully integrated life plan. We can help!
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